BENEFITS OF PUNISHMENT

Children are the most important wealth for parents. They are everything for a father or mother. Parents wants to do everything for their children while bringing up them. However, while children grow up, parents should be careful about their behaviour. Attitude of children is flexible and affected. Naturally, children make a mistake constantly. Parents have to correct their mistakes by different rules. If these rules disobey, what should parents do ? Should parents punish them ? Or not ?
I think the child is seriously misbehaving, parents should punish. I don’t mean beatings of course, but some slaps and spanks will do the child good in these circumstances. If the child make mistake, first step should be warn them as speaking. If child repeat his mistake, slaps and spanks can be work.If some children don’t understand the warning and they deserve beating. Slaps may be good lesson in some circumstances.
Beating children can be seen as a harmful;however when we look the parents ,in almost all families , they beat thier children because of various reasons.Sometimes it brings about possitive results.There are some possitive results of beating children.For example; beating children promotes education.Sometimes in order to achive the goal of education it can works. Students who is beaten can memorize even if an entire book in a day.It aslo provides dicipline for students and thanks to it they can be concentrate on lesssons.
On the other hand, punish isn’t explained just as beating. You may punish your child various types.For example; you have a 2 years old child who doesn’t understand any warning.Although you warn your child again and again, he/she doesn’t understand your monitory speechs.Therefore you must refer to slaps or your slipper.I’m sure that all of us were exposed to our mother’s slippers but these method of punish isn’t beating.It is only a warning type and generally it works.I know from my experience. I remember that one day I came my house at lately hours and my mother was waiting me in front of the door. When I entered, she started to slap me and it was a big lesson for me. After this event, I never come to house at lately hours. If my mother would warn me softly, maybe I could continue this behaviour.
To sum up, although some parents and experts claim that beating children can causes some phychological problems, it also has some possitive effects such as promoting education,repeat mistake and be good lesson for child. In limitaions, punish can be effective for bringing up a child.In necessary times,parents should punish to their children.

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